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As August rolls in, the countdown to the first day of school begins, which means it’s time for back-to-school clothes shopping. This task has become more intricate now that my kids are tweens and fashion-conscious. They have clear “yes” and “no” lists for what they’ll wear and what they won’t, adding an extra layer of complexity. 

Where to Start – Make A List

Before creating a school shopping list, I have the kids go through all their clothes. Anything ripped or stained goes into the scrap pile or the trash, depending on its condition. Then, I make them try on the remaining clothes. This step is crucial for the ones who haven’t grasped the “high-water” concept. Anything that doesn’t fit goes into the donation pile. With this done, we can make a list of what we need and evaluate any hand-me-down possibilities, ensuring we don’t buy more than what is needed. Now we’re ready to shop!

What’s On The List? What You Need for the School Year

Kids do not need an extensive wardrobe for school, despite what your child seems to think. Here’s a basic list that covers essentials:

• 5-7 pairs of pants or leggings (girls)
• 3-4 short sleeved shirts
• 3-4 long sleeved shirts
• 3 hoodies
• 2-3 sweaters/cardigans
• 9 pairs of socks & underwear
• For girls:
  • 2 skirts
  • 2 dresses
  • 2 pairs of tights (dark & light)
  • 3-5 bras/tank tops
• For boys:
  • 2 button-down shirts
  • 2 polo shirts
  • a belt
• A pair of gym shoes
• A pair of dress shoes
• A pair of waterproof shoes/boots
• Rain/light jacket

This basic wardrobe should last most of the school year, barring major growth spurts. Depending on your local weather, you might need to adjust this list. For example, we need more waterproof items because it rains for most of the school year. As winter approaches, I may need to buy a winter coat, but luckily, Grandma knits hats, scarves, and gloves at no cost. I also skip buying at least one hoodie because the school sells them as a fundraiser in September.

Back-to-School Shopping is an Adventure!

Clothing Swaps – Hosting a clothing swap with a friends or your church group can be a great way to get quality clothing for free. Local mom groups on Facebook sometimes host swaps as well. If your children attend a school requiring uniforms, check to see if the school hosts one.

Check out larger community groups on FB too! Sometimes they’ll host a large swap. We have a HUGE one in a nearby city that fills the fairgrounds!

FB Sales Groups – If you need something specific, like waterproof boots, post on a local FB swap group! These groups are also really good for seasonal items, like winter clothing and fancy dress clothing. Plus, you could also sell your more expensive items to offset the cost of new clothes.

Thrift stores – There are my go-to get day-to-day clothing. You can find some great deals on expensive brand name clothing.  Remember that not all thrift stores are the same. It’s worth explore locations to find the best ones for kids’ clothes. Check out local charity thrift shops for better prices.

 Off-Price Sellers – Stores like Ross and TJ Max offer good quality at discounted prices. Be prepared for a bit of a hunt, as they can be disorganized at busy times. However, at 60% off the initial price, we are prepared to dig.

Clearance Rack – Always check the clearance rack at other retailers. You get the biggest bang for your buck if you regularly visit as discounts and items change frequently. Old Navy has sale secrets too! So does Kohls.

Amazon – Amazon can be a good deal on kids clothing, especially if there is something special you need.